Despite TikTok being inaccessible in India, trends originating from this social media platform manage to spark conversations nationwide. A current trend that has captured the internet’s attention is the concept of ‘masterdating’.
But before you jump to conclusions, let’s clarify! Contrary to what the term might sound like, masterdating involves treating yourself to a solo date. This intriguing concept is making its way into the ever-evolving pop-culture lexicon, as social media platforms are flooded with videos showcasing individuals embracing their ‘masterdating’ experiences.
These solo adventurers take themselves out to upscale restaurants, bars, museums, and parks. The trend encompasses more than just outings; it entails indulging oneself with special gifts and treats, fostering a sense of self-sufficiency. This practice serves as a dedicated endeavor to explore one’s true self, nurture well-being, and bravely confront solitude.
“Engaging in self-dates is an act of self-love and self-compassion. It’s a way of understanding your own desires, needs, and the sources of your happiness. It’s about uncovering your own passions,” shared dating coach Amy Nobile, advocating for ‘masterdating’ at least once a week.
Although ‘masterdating’ is trending now, both as a term and a concept, it’s not entirely novel. The idea of treating oneself to solo outings has been around for a while.
Back in 2010, the Urban Dictionary defined it as: “When a person (typically a guy) ventures out to watch a movie, visit a theme park, or engage in activities typically enjoyed by couples or friends, but does so alone. This can elicit sympathy from onlookers as they observe the individual purchasing tickets or entering the venue. This differs from simply grabbing a coffee, sitting alone in a café for a short while, renting a movie, or eating fast food.”
Even those in committed relationships might find value in trying out ‘masterdating’.
The hashtag #MasterDating is making waves on TikTok, with videos on this topic garnering 1.6 million views, as reported by The Post.
Is ‘masterdating’ just another catchphrase for spending quality time with oneself, or is it genuinely deserving of the buzz it’s generating? Share your thoughts!